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November 8 2025

Rebuilding Trust – How Ethical Mediums Can Heal the Damage Done to the Industry

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Rebuilding trust – how ethical mediums can heal the damage done to the industry by Kristian von Sponneck, Psychic Medium & Psychic Entertainer

Mediumship has taken some knocks.
Scandals, sceptics, social-media fakery, and public disappointment have all chipped away at a profession that once offered hope in the darkest corners of grief. The question many people quietly ask now is simple: can it ever recover its credibility?

I believe it can — but only if we rebuild it from the inside out. Not through slogans or PR, but through ethics, education, and evidence.

Admit Where We Went Wrong

The first step in rebuilding trust is brutal honesty.
As a community we must stop pretending every medium is genuine or that Spirit excuses poor conduct. There have been mistakes — some tragic, some trivial, all costly.

We’ve allowed ego, competition, and blind loyalty to cloud discernment. We’ve let fame become validation. Until we acknowledge that publicly, we can’t expect the public to forgive us privately.

Transparency is healing. Denial is rot.

Put Service Back at the Centre

Mediumship began as service — not show business. Its purpose was to comfort the bereaved, not to cultivate followers.

Every demonstration, whether in a church, a theatre, or a live stream, should begin with one question:

“Who am I serving right now — Spirit, or myself?”

If the honest answer is yourself, pause. Reset. Realign.
The simplest way to restore trust is to make every sitting an act of compassion, not competition.

Educate the Public — Properly

People fear what they don’t understand. That fear disappears when they’re taught how genuine mediumship actually works.

Explain the difference between psychic intuition and evidential Spirit communication.
Teach audiences that no contact is guaranteed, that free will exists on both sides, and that real evidence is specific, not generic comfort.

When the public knows what ethical mediumship looks like, they stop tolerating the unethical.

Knowledge protects both sitter and medium.

Raise Professional Standards

We cannot keep operating on good intentions alone. Every serious medium should commit to continual professional development — not just spiritual, but psychological.

Learn about grief responses, trauma language, and emotional regulation. Study scepticism as much as spirituality. Join supervision circles. Record your work for review.

The more we behave like professionals, the less we’ll be dismissed as performers.

Spirit doesn’t need defending from science; it needs practitioners educated enough to speak its language intelligently.

Encourage Peer Review and Mentorship

In the old circles, mediums trained under mentors for years before ever going public. That structure kept integrity intact. We need that back.

Peer review isn’t criticism — it’s calibration. A trusted colleague who questions your evidence is a safeguard, not a threat.
Mentorship keeps talent humble and technique sharp.

If we want the public to trust us again, we must start trusting each other enough to be honest.

Create a Visible Code of Ethics

Imagine if every practising medium displayed a clear, concise Code of Ethics on their website and promotional material:

No guaranteed results.

No exploitation of grief or fear.

No medical, legal, or financial advice.

Full transparency about fees and context.

Respectful language at all times.

That single act would shift public perception overnight. It says, “I am accountable.”

Modernise Without Losing Meaning

Technology isn’t the enemy; misuse is.
Let’s livestream responsibly, record our readings with consent, and use cameras to demonstrate openness — not to chase attention.

When people see ethical conduct paired with modern professionalism, credibility rises. Spirit doesn’t mind cameras; it minds dishonesty.

Celebrate Accuracy, Not Drama

We must retrain audiences — and ourselves — to value precision over performance.

A quiet, evidential message that proves love continues carries more power than any theatrical flourish.
Applause fades; truth endures.

If we start praising accuracy and sincerity, others will follow.

Unite Genuine Practitioners

The era of fragmented egos and rival camps must end. Ethical mediums need to form a united, visible community that stands apart from sensationalism.

Whether that becomes a Professional Council, an Ethical Alliance, or a verified accreditation body, the idea is the same: collective credibility.

When the public sees mediums holding each other to account, trust naturally returns.

My Promise — and the Challenge Ahead

As someone who works both in spiritual and entertainment settings, I see how fragile trust can be. One false claim undoes a hundred honest readings.
That’s why I’ve built my own practice on transparency — no guarantees, no guides, no theatrics, just clear evidence and compassion.

But one person’s ethics aren’t enough. It has to be a movement — a return to integrity across the board.

We can’t change what was, but we can redefine what comes next.

How Ethical Mediums Can Heal the Damage Done to the Industry – Final Thoughts

Mediumship doesn’t need defending; it needs redeeming.

It began as a message of hope: that death is not the end, that love is unbreakable, that communication continues. Somewhere along the way, that message was overshadowed by ego, scepticism, and spectacle.

It’s time to bring it back.

If we build an industry rooted in honesty, education, and empathy, the public will forgive the past. They always do — when they can feel truth.

The Spirit world has never lost faith in us.
Now it’s our turn to earn that faith back.

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How Ethical Mediums Can Heal the Damage Done to the Industry

November 6 2025

The Future of Mediumship – Reclaiming Credibility in the Age of Clicks and Cameras

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The Future of Mediumship – Reclaiming Credibility in the Age of Clicks and Cameras by Kristian von Sponneck, Psychic Medium & Psychic Entertainer

Mediumship once belonged to the séance room and the church platform. Today it lives on TikTok, YouTube, and livestreams that reach thousands in a single scroll. That visibility could have been the golden age of spiritual connection — instead, it’s become a crossroads between authenticity and attention.

In this post I want to ask the question too many avoid: can mediumship survive the algorithm?

The Digital Circus

Social media promised connection; it delivered competition.
Instead of quiet development, we now have “Psychic Tok” — a carousel of one-minute messages, “Spirit says stop scrolling” videos, and mass readings disguised as entertainment.

The medium has become the brand, and the Spirit world the backdrop.

Algorithms reward emotion, not evidence. Outrage, tears, and instant gratification outperform nuance and ethics every time. That’s why genuine work — slow, evidential, human — struggles to trend.

Attention Is the New Currency

Clicks now carry more weight than credibility. Some mediums perform live readings several times a day, claiming nonstop downloads from Spirit, yet their content is indistinguishable from lifestyle influencers.

That doesn’t make them all frauds — but it does raise a moral question:

“If you’re constantly performing, when do you listen?”

True mediumship requires silence, rest, and reflection. The nervous system can’t stay receptive if it’s chasing views.

The Rise of the Digital Psychic

Technology has created an army of “digital psychics” who sell readings through chatbots, AI filters, and pre-recorded templates.

It’s convenient, profitable, and completely devoid of empathy.

Spirit communication cannot be automated. Mediumship is about relationship, not data exchange. When an algorithm starts doing “readings,” we’ve reduced the sacred to customer service.

Filters and Fakery

We now live in an age where even evidence can be edited. Some online mediums splice together multiple sessions to make every message appear flawless. Others use emotional music, reaction cuts, and captions that steer the viewer’s response.

The danger is subtle: audiences begin expecting cinematic perfection from live mediumship — forgetting that real communication is imperfect, human, and raw.

A single miss can destroy a medium’s online reputation, so some begin editing reality itself.

That’s not Spirit. That’s PR.

The Lost Art of Development

In the past, mediums spent years sitting in circles, studying ethics, and learning emotional discipline before ever stepping onto a public platform. Now people skip straight from “awakening” to advertising.

Development has been replaced by branding. Reflection replaced by filters.

We’ve traded patience for immediacy — and in doing so, we’ve lost depth.

The Public Is Wiser Than We Think

Despite the chaos, audiences are evolving. They can feel authenticity. They know when something rings true and when it’s performed.

I’ve noticed that people crave realness more than ever. They’re tired of polished perfection. When a genuine moment of Spirit happens — unedited, unforced — it cuts through the noise instantly.

That’s our opportunity: truth still trends when it’s felt.

Technology as Ally, Not Enemy

We don’t need to reject technology; we need to reclaim it.

Use live-streaming to teach, not to show off.
Use cameras to document real demonstrations transparently.
Use social media to explain ethics, grief awareness, and discernment.

The same platforms that cheapen mediumship can also elevate it — if we use them with intention.

Spirit doesn’t fear progress; it asks us to use it wisely.

Evidence Must Evolve Too

In an age of instant playback, we have a chance to make mediumship more verifiable than ever. Recordings, transcripts, and data logging can preserve accuracy.

Imagine a future where mediums archive every demonstration and allow independent review. That’s how we restore credibility — not by hiding in candlelight, but by stepping into the open.

Light, literally and metaphorically, is the best proof of all.

The Human Touch Will Always Win

No matter how advanced technology becomes, no algorithm can replicate the quiet heartbeat of a genuine connection.

When someone receives a message that carries a private detail, a nickname, a shared joke known only to them and their loved one — that’s the moment the noise stops.

That will never be downloadable.

My Vision for the Future

Mediumship must become transparent, educational, and emotionally intelligent.

Transparent – openly filmed demonstrations with clear disclaimers.

Educational – audiences taught how communication works, not mystified.

Emotionally intelligent – mediums trained in trauma awareness and ethical language.

The more professional we become, the less we need to defend ourselves.

If we hold ourselves to those standards, the future of mediumship won’t depend on algorithms; it will depend on integrity.

The Future of Mediumship – Final Thoughts

We can’t go back to candlelit parlours — nor should we. The world has changed, and so must we.

But in the rush to modernise, let’s not forget the core truth: mediumship isn’t about visibility; it’s about validity.

The Spirit world doesn’t need followers — it needs believers in integrity.

Clicks fade. Truth endures. And in the end, the only platform that matters is the bridge between two worlds.

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The Future of Mediumship

November 5 2025

Fake Phenomena and the Psychology of Belief

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Fake phenomena and the psychology of belief – why some mediums convince even themselves by Kristian von Sponneck, Psychic Medium & Psychic Entertainer

Mediumship attracts scrutiny, and rightly so. The claim that consciousness survives death is extraordinary, and extraordinary claims demand honesty — not just with the public, but with ourselves.

The uncomfortable truth is that self-deception is far more common in this field than deliberate fraud. Many mediums who appear confident and sincere aren’t conning others; they’re unwittingly caught in the psychology of belief.

If we’re serious about protecting the integrity of our work, we must learn to recognise when faith turns into bias, and when intuition quietly slips into imagination.

The Human Brain Wants Meaning

Our brains are pattern-making machines. They link random details, fill gaps, and search for stories that make emotional sense.
That’s why sitters sometimes “fit” vague statements to their own experiences — and why even experienced mediums can misinterpret subtle impressions.

The mind abhors uncertainty. When we sense a whisper of energy, we naturally want to define it. But if we’re not grounded, our own subconscious will happily supply an answer.

Recognising that impulse isn’t scepticism — it’s professionalism.

Feedback Loops Create False Confidence

Every medium knows the thrill of a sitter nodding enthusiastically. That micro-reaction — the widening eyes, the intake of breath — triggers dopamine and reinforces our sense of accuracy.

Do that hundreds of times and you create a powerful feedback loop: “I’m always right; therefore what I feel must be Spirit.”
Soon, discernment blurs.

Without regular supervision or peer critique, mediums can spend years in that echo chamber, surrounded by affirmation but divorced from objectivity.

Memory Distortion and the ‘Selective Hit’

Human memory is elastic. Sitters remember the hits and forget the misses; mediums do the same.

After a demonstration, we tend to recall the one dazzling detail that landed perfectly — not the ten that didn’t.
Over time, this creates an inflated sense of accuracy and feeds the myth of infallibility.

Keeping detailed records and reviewing them honestly is the only antidote.

Cold Reading vs. Genuine Connection

Cold reading is often misunderstood. It isn’t always malicious trickery; it’s a set of psychological cues anyone can fall into — subtle observation, probability, body language, and emotional inference.

A sincere medium can accidentally employ cold-reading techniques without realising it. The sitter reacts, the medium’s intuition amplifies, and the illusion of communication is born.

Ethical mediums train themselves to spot these traps. They focus on specific, verifiable evidence — names, memories, quirks — rather than safe generalities.

The Subtle Slide from Energy to Imagination

Intuitive work begins with a felt sense — a vibration, an image, a thought that doesn’t seem to originate from oneself.
But imagination sits on the same neural pathways. Under emotional pressure, those signals can merge.

The test is consistency: does the information feel spontaneous, or built? Does it flow naturally, or does it require mental construction?

True mediumship feels received. False perception feels assembled.

Learning that distinction takes years of self-observation and humility.

The Problem of Isolation

Mediums often work alone, without supervision or peer review. Isolation breeds certainty.
When no one challenges you, your inner narrative becomes gospel.

That’s why development circles, mentoring, and constructive scepticism are vital. A trusted colleague who can question you is worth more than a thousand compliments.

Accountability keeps intuition honest.

The Role of Emotion

Emotion is both the fuel and the fog of mediumship. Grief energy opens the heart — but it can also distort perception.

If a medium wants an outcome strongly enough, the subconscious will oblige with imagery and sensation that feel real.
The more compassionate the medium, the greater the risk of emotional contamination.

Grounding before and after readings isn’t ritual; it’s psychological hygiene.

Why Good People Believe Their Own Stories

Cognitive dissonance explains why even ethical mediums double down when challenged.
Admitting error threatens not just their reputation, but their entire worldview. To protect that worldview, the mind reinterprets evidence until it fits.

It’s easier to believe “Spirit didn’t want that information to come through” than “I misread the impression.”

That’s not deceit — that’s human defence. But unchecked, it becomes delusion.

Science, Skepticism, and Spiritual Integrity

Science isn’t the enemy of mediumship; denial is. A truly spiritual medium should welcome research, not fear it.

We can hold faith and reason in the same hand. Understanding psychology doesn’t diminish Spirit — it refines the translator.
The more we understand the human mind, the cleaner the channel becomes.

If Spirit is real, truth can only help it.

The Discipline of Self-Questioning

The most authentic mediums I’ve met all share one trait: self-doubt.

Not crippling insecurity — healthy doubt. The kind that keeps you honest.
After every demonstration, ask:

Did I interpret or receive?

Was that specific or suggestive?

Did I want it to be true, or did it simply arrive?

That inner audit is the difference between mediumship and imagination.

A Call for Conscious Mediumship

The future of this work isn’t about defending belief; it’s about raising consciousness within the craft itself.

We must normalise critical thinking, record-keeping, and peer evaluation.
We must stop mistaking charisma for credibility.
And we must accept that self-correction isn’t scepticism — it’s spiritual maturity.

Mediumship can be both mystical and methodical. One honours Spirit; the other protects truth.

Fake Phenomena and the Psychology of Belief – Final Thoughts

Some mediums fake; more simply mistake.
The only cure for both is awareness.

If you claim to speak for those beyond life, you have a duty to understand the living psychology through which that speech passes.

Spirit deserves translators who know their own minds.
Because until we master the human filter, we’ll never hear the full clarity of the voice that speaks through it.

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Fake Phenomena and the Psychology of Belief

October 31 2025

Remembering Doris Stokes – The People’s Medium

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Remembering Doris Stokes – The People’s Medium by Kristian von Sponneck – Psychic Medium & Psychic Entertainer

There are names in the world of mediumship that evoke instant affection — figures who brought comfort, credibility, and compassion to the art of spirit communication. One such name is Doris Stokes.

For many in Britain, especially through the 1970s and 1980s, Doris wasn’t just a psychic medium — she was the medium. A household name. A woman whose gentle voice and sincere manner touched hearts far beyond the walls of Spiritualist churches.

Today, decades after her passing, Doris Stokes remains a symbol of what mediumship can be when it’s grounded in empathy, humility, and human warmth.

The Early Years – A Gift in Ordinary Surroundings

Doris Sutton (later Stokes) was born in 1920 in Grantham, Lincolnshire — the daughter of a working-class family. Like many natural mediums, her gift appeared early. She spoke of sensing Spirit as a child, often in ways that frightened her before she learned to understand what was happening.

Her life was not easy. She worked in factories, married, raised a child, and suffered significant personal loss. But it was precisely her life experience — the pain, resilience, and love — that shaped her compassion and made her so relatable to ordinary people.

When she later described the Spirit world, she did so without grandeur or mystery. To her, the afterlife wasn’t an abstract philosophy; it was an extension of love itself.

From Church Platform to Public Stage

Doris’s journey as a working medium began modestly, through Spiritualist church demonstrations in London and around the UK.
In those early post-war years, many sought comfort after the immense losses of the Second World War. Doris’s gentle manner and matter-of-fact approach reassured people that their loved ones had survived death and were still aware of them.

Her reputation grew through word of mouth — one heartfelt message at a time.

By the 1970s, she had become a regular fixture at major venues, including the London Palladium, where she demonstrated mediumship before packed audiences. Her shows were not theatrical; they were intimate, conversational, filled with laughter and humanity.

What made Doris remarkable was her tone. She didn’t “perform” Spirit communication — she shared it.
Viewers at home, watching her on television or listening to her radio appearances, often said it felt like talking with a kindly neighbour who just happened to speak with the departed.

Television, Books, and Bringing Mediumship to the Mainstream

At a time when psychic mediumship was still considered taboo or fringe, Doris’s sincerity helped bring it into the mainstream.
She appeared on television talk shows and in documentaries with a natural grace that won over sceptics and believers alike.

Her best-selling autobiographies — beginning with Voices in My Ear (1980) — gave an unprecedented glimpse into a medium’s inner world.
She wrote candidly about doubt, exhaustion, illness, and the emotional responsibility of her work. She made mediumship human.

Through her books and interviews, Doris didn’t preach or dramatise; she comforted. She showed that faith in the Spirit world could coexist with practicality and humour.

A Medium of the People

What truly set Doris apart was her accessibility.
While many mediums of her time sought mystique, Doris remained grounded. She spoke in plain language, laughed easily, and approached Spirit communication as service, not spectacle.

She referred to her ability not as a gift of superiority, but as a responsibility of love:

“I’m just a telephone exchange between two worlds,” she often said.

To her audiences, that simplicity was disarming — and authentic. She didn’t claim to have all the answers. She offered what she received, and she trusted Spirit to do the rest.

Criticism and Controversy

As with all public figures in psychic work, Doris faced scepticism and controversy, particularly from the scientific and sceptical communities. Investigators questioned the methods and accuracy of public mediums, and Doris was not exempt.

However, even her critics often conceded that her intentions appeared genuine. Whether one believed or not, few denied her compassion or the comfort she brought to grieving families.

To this day, she remains a reminder that integrity and warmth matter more than theatricality or fame.

Her Passing and Continuing Legacy

Doris Stokes passed away in 1987, but her influence never really faded. Her books remain in print. Recordings of her demonstrations still circulate among Spiritualists, mediums, and historians.

For many working mediums — myself included — she stands as an early model of professionalism and humility in a field often misunderstood.
She proved that mediumship could be done with dignity and without sensationalism.

She also helped bridge the gap between traditional Spiritualism and a broader public curiosity about the afterlife. In doing so, she quietly shifted public consciousness toward acceptance of spiritual communication.

Doris Stokes and the Modern Medium

Today’s generation of mediums — including those of us who blend contemporary presentation with deep spiritual ethics — owe much to the groundwork she laid.

Her style wasn’t about speed, technique, or “wow moments.” It was about listening — to Spirit, to emotion, to silence.
In that sense, her mediumship was profoundly Spiritualist — a service of love rather than proof, a bridge rather than a performance.

When I watch clips of Doris today, I’m struck not by the messages she gave, but by the feeling in the room.
There’s a softness, a tenderness, a sense of care that transcends the words. That, I believe, was her true mediumship — to make people feel seen, loved, and less alone.

Lessons from Doris for Modern Practitioners

If Doris were alive today, in an age of social media and “psychic entertainment,” I believe she would remind us of a few timeless truths:

Keep it simple. Spirit doesn’t need embellishment.

Stay humble. The work is not about the medium; it’s about the message.

Be compassionate. Mediumship is emotional work — always hold it with care.

Serve with sincerity. Fame fades; integrity endures.

Those values are as relevant now as they were when she first stepped onto the platform.

Remembering Doris – The Spirit That Endures

Doris once said,

“When I die, I shall go on working from the other side — that’s where the real work begins.”

Many Spiritualists believe she’s kept that promise. Her influence lives on through the comfort her books continue to give, the mediums she inspired, and the generations who first learned about life after death because of her gentle voice.

She taught the world that Spirit communication, when done with love and sincerity, is not about the dead — it’s about life continuing.

Remembering Doris Stokes – The People’s Medium Final Reflection

Doris Stokes opened a door for millions — a door between this world and the next, but also a door in the human heart.
She showed that mediumship could be an act of compassion, not performance.
And she left behind a legacy that continues to guide, inspire, and comfort all who believe that consciousness survives and that love endures.

For me, as a working medium in a very different era, Doris remains a benchmark of what the work can and should be: honest, heartfelt, and human.

So this post isn’t just remembrance — it’s gratitude.
Thank you, Doris, for showing the world that speaking with Spirit can be done with gentleness, humility, and grace.

And thank you for reminding us that the true message of mediumship is not death — it’s continuing love.

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Remembering Doris Stokes – The People’s Medium

October 29 2025

The Different Ways Spirit Communicates with Mediums

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The Different Ways Spirit Communicates with Mediums By Kristian von Sponneck – Psychic Medium & Psychic Entertainer

When most people imagine a medium receiving messages from Spirit, they picture a ghost whispering words into someone’s ear or an image appearing like a film projection.
In truth, Spirit communication is rarely so literal. It’s not “seeing ghosts” — it’s perceiving vibration.

Spirit doesn’t speak English or Danish or any human language; they communicate through frequency, emotion, image, memory, and knowing. Mediumship is the art of translating that energetic language into something the human mind can understand.

In this article, I’ll explain the main ways that communication happens, how the psychic senses (known collectively as the clairs) work, and what those experiences feel like from the inside.

How Spirit Communication Works

When Spirit reaches out, they do so by blending their consciousness with the medium’s energy field — what many traditions call the aura.
The medium raises their vibration through focus, calm, and intention, while Spirit gently lowers theirs.
In that overlapping frequency — a shared wavelength of awareness — information is exchanged.

That information is not spoken; it’s impressed.
Spirit projects thoughts, feelings, images, sounds, and sensory impressions directly into the medium’s consciousness.
The medium’s role is to interpret these impressions faithfully, without embellishment or assumption.

No two mediums receive in exactly the same way.
Just as musicians have preferred instruments, mediums have preferred channels of perception.
These channels are what we call the clairs.

1. Clairvoyance – “Clear Seeing”

Clairvoyance is the ability to receive visual impressions from Spirit.
These may appear as:

Still images, like photographs.

Moving scenes, like short film clips.

Symbols or colours.

Light, shadow, or shapes perceived within the mind’s eye.

How It Feels

It’s not like seeing with physical eyes; it’s more like seeing with thought.
The images appear internally — sometimes as mental pictures, sometimes as subtle visualisations that carry an emotional charge.
A face may flash briefly; a flower, a number, or a place might surface spontaneously.

Interpreting Clairvoyance

Spirit rarely shows random pictures. Each image holds meaning.
A red rose may symbolise romantic love. A clock might refer to timing or an anniversary.
Experienced mediums learn to decode these visuals quickly while staying open to literal interpretation if the sitter recognises the image exactly.

Clairvoyance is perhaps the most dramatic of the psychic senses, but it is also the easiest to misinterpret if the medium adds imagination. The key is discipline: describe exactly what you see, not what you think it means.

2. Clairaudience – “Clear Hearing”

Clairaudience is the perception of sound from Spirit.
This may present as:

A voice speaking inside the mind.

A single word, name, or phrase.

Non-verbal tones, music, or humming.

The memory of someone’s voice playing like an echo.

How It Feels

Sometimes it’s as distinct as hearing your own name called when alone.
More often, it’s subtle — a thought that carries a sound-quality, as though “spoken” within.
Spirit uses the medium’s auditory imagination the way a musician uses an instrument.

Interpreting Clairaudience

Because Spirit rarely speaks in full sentences, mediums must capture fragments accurately.
A single word can unlock profound evidence — a nickname, a familiar saying, a pet name no one else could know.

I’ve had readings where Spirit whispered one unmistakable word that brought immediate tears of recognition.
That’s the power of hearing beyond the veil.

3. Clairsentience – “Clear Feeling”

Clairsentience is the ability to feel Spirit through emotion or bodily sensation.
It is one of the most common and underrated psychic senses.

How It Feels

You may suddenly experience warmth, goosebumps, or tingling as Spirit draws near.
Sometimes an emotion arises that isn’t yours — sudden joy, sorrow, humour, or calm.
The medium temporarily feels what the Spirit felt in life or what they wish to convey.

For example, a father in Spirit might impress a sense of pride and tenderness; a grandmother might convey warmth, baking smells, and the emotional memory of her kitchen.

Interpreting Clairsentience

Feelings translate into meaning.
Pain in a certain body part may indicate cause of passing.
A wave of happiness may affirm that the loved one is at peace.

Clairsentience is also how many non-mediums experience Spirit unconsciously — a comforting chill, a sudden sense of being hugged.
It is the language of empathy beyond words.

4. Claircognizance – “Clear Knowing”

Claircognizance is direct, spontaneous knowledge.
You simply know something without any logical reason to.

How It Feels

The information drops in like a completed sentence.
It doesn’t feel guessed or imagined; it feels factual.
There’s no emotional charge — just certainty.

For example, during a demonstration I might suddenly know that the Spirit was a teacher, loved jazz, and kept a golden retriever — without hearing or seeing any of that.
It arrives whole, as though downloaded into awareness.

Interpreting Claircognizance

This sense requires deep trust because it bypasses the other senses entirely.
Doubt can block it instantly.
Training teaches the medium to distinguish pure knowing from assumption — to deliver it neutrally and let validation come from the sitter.

5. Clairalience and Clairgustance – “Clear Smell” and “Clear Taste”

Less common but equally striking, these senses allow Spirit to convey identity through scent or taste.

Examples

The smell of cigarette smoke when no one is smoking.

The taste of whisky when connecting with a loved one who enjoyed it.

The faint scent of perfume or flowers specific to a person.

These experiences are often momentary yet profoundly evidential.
They anchor the abstract into the physical world, reminding us that Spirit retains personality and memory.

6. The Subtle Combinations

In practice, the clairs rarely operate separately.
A medium may simultaneously see an image, feel an emotion, and know the relationship.

Spirit transmits multi-layered packets of information — the medium’s energy field breaks that down through whichever senses are most open.
Each message is like a chord rather than a single note.

For instance, I may see a man’s face (clairvoyance), feel tightness in the chest (clairsentience), hear the word “Dad” (clairaudience), and simply know his name is Michael (claircognizance).
That combination forms one complete communication.

7. The Role of Symbolism

Spirit often communicates symbolically because symbols cross language barriers.
A rose can mean love; a book can mean learning; rain can mean tears or renewal.

Over time, every medium builds a personal dictionary of symbols.
Spirit learns that dictionary and uses it — much like two people developing private shorthand.

For beginners, journaling each symbol and its context helps decode future messages with clarity.

8. The Emotional Signature of Spirit

Every spirit carries a distinct vibration — a feeling signature much like a musical key.
When that signature blends with the medium’s energy, the atmosphere shifts noticeably.

Some feel it as warmth, others as expansion or lightness.
I often sense a change in tone before any words or images arrive — an emotional presence entering the room.

This “signature” is what allows a medium to differentiate between multiple spirits during a demonstration.
It’s the spiritual equivalent of recognising a loved one’s laughter in a crowded room.

9. Conscious vs. Trance Communication

There are two main states in which mediums receive information:

Conscious mediumship – The medium remains fully aware, translating impressions in real time. This is how I work.

Trance or altered state – The medium’s consciousness moves aside to allow Spirit closer influence over speech or movement.

Both methods rely on the same energetic principles but differ in depth.
Trance is like letting Spirit use the microphone directly; conscious mediumship is like repeating what you hear through headphones.

Neither is “better.” What matters is the clarity, evidence, and emotional integrity of the message.

10. The Fine Art of Translation

Spirit communication is as much interpretation as reception.
The impression might be instantaneous — a flash of feeling or image — but the medium must find the human words to express it without distortion.

That requires language skill, emotional awareness, and humility.
No medium is perfect; we translate Spirit through the vocabulary and experience we have.
That’s why two mediums can deliver the same spirit differently — each adds their own nuance of expression.

My own rule is simple: describe exactly what I receive, then step aside and let the sitter make sense of it. Spirit will always confirm through resonance.

11. Why Spirit Chooses Different Senses

Spirit uses whatever sensory “door” the medium leaves open.
If you’re visual, they’ll show imagery.
If you’re emotional, they’ll send feeling.
If you’re analytical, they may impress direct knowing.

Spirit communication is cooperative — they adapt to the receiver’s strengths.
That’s why development circles emphasise awareness of your strongest clair first, then expansion into the others.

12. Developing the Clairs

To strengthen your spiritual senses:

Clairvoyance: Practice visualisation; picture vivid scenes daily.

Clairaudience: Spend time in silence; listen beyond sound.

Clairsentience: Notice bodily sensations around emotion.

Claircognizance: Journal intuitive insights before analysing them.

Development is less about acquiring skills and more about remembering sensitivity.
You already have these senses — they simply need exercising.

13. The Psychology Behind the Experience

From a psychological perspective, each clair corresponds to an aspect of brain function:

Clairvoyance activates visual imagination and memory centres.

Clairaudience involves internal auditory processing.

Clairsentience engages the limbic (emotional) system.

Claircognizance correlates with intuitive synthesis in the prefrontal cortex.

Understanding this doesn’t reduce the spiritual reality — it enhances it.
It shows that Spirit communicates through the natural architecture of human perception.

14. Evidential vs. Inspirational Communication

Sometimes Spirit provides concrete facts — names, dates, details — known as evidential mediumship.
Other times, they offer emotional insight or comfort — inspirational mediumship.

Both are valid; one proves, the other heals.
A balanced mediumship session includes elements of both: evidence for the mind, love for the heart.

15. The Emotional Intelligence of Spirit

Spirit understands that communication is not just data transfer; it’s empathy exchange.
They use the clairs not only to convey facts but to evoke feeling — to make you remember how their love felt.

That’s why genuine spirit contact often moves people to tears or laughter before any words are spoken.
The energy of love itself is the first and purest message.

16. The Boundaries of Mediumship

No medium receives everything.
Spirit communicates within ethical and emotional boundaries — they won’t reveal private details that violate dignity, nor predict outcomes beyond human responsibility.

When information stops flowing, it’s usually because Spirit has said enough.
Respecting that boundary maintains the purity of the work.

17. The Relationship Between Spirit and Medium

Mediumship is not command — it’s collaboration.
Spirit chooses to work with mediums whose energy, temperament, and integrity align with their purpose.

Over time, certain Spirits may become familiar collaborators during demonstrations, helping facilitate smoother connections.
This partnership is built on mutual trust, not possession or control.

18. Common Misunderstandings

“Mediums hear voices all day.”
False. The channel opens intentionally; mediums can switch it off.

“You must go into a trance to contact Spirit.”
Not true. Conscious awareness is often clearer and safer.

“Only gifted people can do this.”
Everyone has potential; practice refines perception.

Dispelling myths keeps the work grounded and credible.

19. My Perspective as an Unguided Medium

I describe myself as an unguided medium — meaning I don’t work through a single spirit guide or intermediary.
Instead, I rely on my own psychic faculties — clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and claircognizance — attuned directly to the communicating Spirit.

This approach feels cleaner to me: one human consciousness connecting directly with another consciousness beyond form.
It requires focus, respect, and emotional discipline, but it allows the evidence and the message to come through unfiltered by any external “guide.”

20. The Beauty of the Process

When you truly experience Spirit communication, you realise it’s not supernatural — it’s super-natural; it’s part of nature operating at a finer frequency.

Each clair is a different language of love.
Some Spirits paint pictures, some sing, some stir feeling, some impress knowledge.
All say the same thing in the end: “I’m still me. I’m still here. Love doesn’t end.”

That’s the heartbeat of mediumship — the blending of two worlds for a moment of shared understanding.

The Different Ways Spirit Communicates with Mediums – Final Thoughts

Spirit communication is not magic — it’s communication between minds across dimensions.
The clairs are simply the sensory bridges that make that possible.

Whether you’re a developing medium or simply curious about how messages reach us, remember this:
Spirit uses whatever language your soul understands best.

Listen with your whole being — with your eyes closed, your heart open, and your mind quiet.
That’s when the unseen becomes unmistakably real.

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October 28 2025

Why Some People Sense Spirit More Easily Than Others

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Why some people sense spirit more easily than others: Have you ever met someone who seems to just know when a spirit is around — someone who feels chills in certain places, dreams vividly of loved ones, or seems to pick up energies long before anyone else does?

People often ask me, “Kristian, why can some people sense Spirit so easily, while others feel nothing at all?”

It’s an excellent question — and the answer is both simple and deeply layered. Every single person has the capacity to perceive Spirit, but the clarity and frequency of that perception depend on many factors: emotional openness, sensitivity, upbringing, belief, and even biology.

Let’s explore what’s really happening when one person feels the unseen while another remains unaware.

We Are All Spirit, First and Foremost

Before diving into “ability,” we must remember one foundational truth:
You are Spirit before you are human.

Your body is a vessel; your consciousness is eternal. The same spiritual energy that animates you is the same energy your loved ones in Spirit exist within.

So the question is not whether you can sense Spirit — you already can. The real question is: how much are you attuned to it?

Think of it like a radio. The broadcast is always playing, but unless your tuner is aligned to the right frequency, you’ll only hear static.

Sensitivity Is a Spectrum

Spiritual sensitivity is not an on/off switch — it’s a spectrum. Some people are born naturally attuned to energy, emotion, and subtle atmosphere. Others develop that sensitivity later through experience, healing, or trauma recovery.

Neither is better; they’re simply different expressions of awareness.

In my years as a medium and psychotherapist, I’ve observed that people who easily sense Spirit often share certain characteristics:

Deep empathy and emotional intelligence.

A heightened awareness of moods, environments, and people.

Strong intuition or “gut feelings.”

A vivid dream life.

A sensitivity to noise, light, or energy shifts.

A reflective or creative personality.

These traits are not accidents; they’re the natural expressions of a soul tuned to subtle frequencies.

1. Emotional Openness: The Gateway to Spirit

Spirit speaks through feeling far more than words. That’s why emotionally open individuals tend to perceive their presence more readily.

When you allow yourself to feel deeply — joy, sadness, empathy, gratitude — you widen your energetic field. That emotional openness creates a resonance that Spirit can match.

Conversely, if you’ve learned to suppress emotion or guard yourself from vulnerability, it can create energetic “filters” that dampen perception. It’s not punishment; it’s physics of the soul.

Spirit vibrates through love and emotion. The more openly you live within those states, the more easily you perceive their presence.

2. The Role of Belief and Permission

Belief is not just philosophy — it’s energy. When you believe something is possible, you open an energetic gateway for it to occur.

If you’ve grown up being told that psychic perception is nonsense or dangerous, your subconscious mind may block subtle awareness out of self-protection. That mental resistance acts like static on the radio dial.

Meanwhile, someone who believes communication is possible naturally relaxes their analytical filter, allowing Spirit’s impressions to flow through.

You don’t have to be a blind believer; you just need to hold a willing curiosity. Belief isn’t about certainty — it’s about permission.

When you silently say, “If you’re there, I’m open,” you’ve already turned the key.

3. Vibration, Frequency, and the Human Energy Field

Spirit operates at a higher vibration — a faster, lighter frequency than the dense energy of physical matter.

When we’re anxious, exhausted, or emotionally heavy, our vibration slows. When we meditate, pray, create, or experience love, our frequency rises.

That’s why many people sense Spirit during peaceful or joyful moments — their personal energy field aligns more easily with Spirit’s.

It’s also why stress, alcohol, grief, and fear can dull sensitivity. The energy body contracts, and Spirit’s subtle whispers are drowned out by the noise of emotion.

Raising your vibration isn’t mystical; it’s practical. Rest, nourishment, gratitude, laughter, time in nature — all lift the energy you emit. The higher your frequency, the easier it becomes to perceive the higher frequencies of Spirit.

4. Childhood Conditioning and Early Sensitivity

Many children are naturally psychic. They talk to “imaginary friends,” describe loved ones who’ve passed, or sense presences that adults dismiss.

Over time, society teaches them to ignore it. Phrases like “Don’t be silly” or “It’s just your imagination” train the mind to close the intuitive channels that once felt completely natural.

Yet those abilities never truly disappear — they simply go dormant. Later in life, events such as loss, meditation, or emotional awakening can reawaken them.

I often say to clients: “You didn’t lose your sensitivity. You just learned to stop listening.”

5. Trauma and Heightened Awareness

This may surprise some people, but trauma can heighten spiritual sensitivity.

As someone who worked for years as a psychotherapist before dedicating myself fully to mediumship, I’ve seen this countless times. When the human system experiences trauma, it often becomes hyper-alert to subtle shifts — emotionally, physically, and energetically.

While that heightened state can cause anxiety or hypervigilance, it can also sharpen perception. The veil between worlds seems thinner for those who’ve learned to sense danger or emotional nuance.

If this resonates with you, know that sensitivity born from pain can evolve into empathic awareness — a gift rather than a wound, once integrated.

6. Grief as a Bridge Between Worlds

The period following loss is one of the most spiritually open states a person can experience.

When we grieve, our focus shifts inward. We think of our loved one constantly, sending thoughts, love, and longing into the ether. Spirit feels that — and responds.

That’s why many people sense their loved one’s presence most strongly soon after they pass. The emotional bond is active, the channel wide open.

Over time, as grief softens and daily life resumes, people often say, “I don’t feel them anymore.” In truth, Spirit hasn’t gone anywhere; it’s that your energy has shifted from receiving to living. The connection never breaks — it simply quietens.

7. Meditation and Stillness as Amplifiers

Spirit communication is like hearing a whisper in a busy room. Meditation quiets the noise so the whisper becomes audible.

Those who meditate regularly often notice spontaneous spiritual experiences: tingling sensations, intuitive thoughts, or the unmistakable sense of a loving presence.

This isn’t imagination; it’s receptivity. Meditation trains your consciousness to move between frequencies.

You don’t need to “try” to see or hear Spirit. You simply need to create quiet enough space for them to be felt.

8. The Left Brain vs. the Right Brain

From a psychological perspective, sensitivity to Spirit involves shifting from the analytical left brain (logic, reasoning, control) to the intuitive right brain (imagination, empathy, receptivity).

Children, artists, and dreamers often live more naturally in right-brain flow. They interpret life through feeling rather than data, which makes them better attuned to subtle energy.

Meanwhile, those who live in constant left-brain mode — high-pressure jobs, constant thinking, endless screens — may block intuition through over-analysis.

Spirit communication thrives when intellect and intuition work together — grounded awareness balanced with openness.

9. Personality and Purpose

Some souls choose sensitivity as part of their life path. Empaths, healers, artists, and caregivers often incarnate with an open auric field designed for connection and service.

These individuals feel everything — the joy and the sorrow of others. Their heightened awareness allows them to sense Spirit with ease, though it can also make life overwhelming until they learn grounding techniques.

If you’ve ever felt “too sensitive,” consider that sensitivity your superpower. It’s the same doorway through which Spirit communicates.

10. The Fear Barrier

Paradoxically, fear is one of the biggest reasons people don’t sense Spirit — even though the very act of fearing the unknown proves they already believe in it.

Fear lowers vibration and tightens the energy field. It tells the subconscious, “Close the door.” Spirit, ever respectful of free will, will not cross that boundary uninvited.

That’s why I always emphasise that true Spirit communication is safe, loving, and uplifting. Spirit does not wish to frighten you — only to comfort. When you shift from fear to curiosity, you open the gateway.

11. The Influence of Lifestyle and Energy Hygiene

Everything you consume — food, media, environment — affects your energy.
Excess alcohol, overstimulation, negative company, or constant noise dull sensitivity.

Grounding, rest, hydration, natural light, and laughter recharge the energy body. When your own field is balanced, Spirit’s presence feels clear and gentle instead of overwhelming.

Just as a musician keeps their instrument tuned, a spiritually sensitive person must maintain energetic hygiene. Your vibration is your instrument — keep it in harmony.

12. How Mediums Train Their Sensitivity

People sometimes think mediums are “chosen.” In truth, most of us train, refine, and discipline our natural awareness through years of practice.

In my own work, I learned to quiet my logical mind, expand my peripheral awareness, and differentiate between emotional intuition, psychic perception, and spirit communication.

The same way a musician trains their ear, mediums train their energy. The potential exists in everyone, but development brings clarity.

If you feel drawn to deepen your awareness, start with meditation, journaling, and gentle exercises in noticing — how a room feels, how your body responds to certain people or places. Those are your first lessons in energy.

13. The Psychology of Belief and Expectation

Human perception is shaped by expectation. If you expect to sense Spirit only through dramatic experiences — voices, shadows, or moving objects — you’ll miss the subtler signs.

Spirit rarely shouts. They whisper through intuition, memory, and gentle emotion.

When you redefine what “contact” looks like, you begin to notice how often it already happens: the well-timed thought, the inner reassurance, the spontaneous wave of calm.

Sensitivity grows not by seeking spectacle, but by learning to value subtlety.

14. The Role of Love and Familiarity

Spirit communication is rooted in emotional resonance. You recognise those you love in Spirit the same way you recognise them in life — by feel.

That’s why people often sense their own relatives more easily than strangers. Love creates a signature vibration that the soul instantly recognises.

You don’t have to “develop” that; it’s built into your energetic DNA.

15. How to Cultivate Sensitivity Safely

To develop your natural awareness without feeling overwhelmed:

Spend time in quiet environments each day, even five minutes.

Limit exposure to over stimulation.

Journal intuitive impressions and dreams.

Ground yourself physically — walks, water, breathing.

Work from love, not curiosity alone.

Never compare your experiences to others’. Your connection is uniquely yours.

Spirit will always meet you where you are emotionally ready to receive.

16. Why Some People Block It Entirely

If someone insists they’ve “never felt anything,” it’s often because their belief system, upbringing, or analytical nature unconsciously filters perception.

Spirit respects those boundaries. They don’t force contact where it’s unwelcome.

Interestingly, the same people who claim disbelief often experience coincidences or intuitive moments they can’t explain — but they rationalise them away. Spirit meets them nonetheless, quietly waiting for recognition.

17. Children, Animals, and Natural Sensitivity

Children and animals are among the most open to Spirit because they haven’t yet learned to doubt. Their awareness is instinctive.

Pets often react first during spiritual presence — staring, wagging, purring at thin air. Children sometimes report visits from deceased grandparents or siblings, describing details they couldn’t have known.

Spirit gravitates toward innocence because the energy is pure, free of scepticism or agenda. Adults can regain that openness through trust and wonder.

18. The Difference Between Sensitivity and Mediumship

Everyone can sense Spirit, but not everyone is a medium.

Sensing is perception; mediumship is translation. A medium acts as a bridge, converting energetic information into words, symbols, or emotion for others.

But all mediums begin as sensitive souls — and every sensitive person can learn to refine their awareness.

So, even if you never wish to work as a medium, your natural sensitivity is valuable. It connects you more deeply to life, love, and intuition.

19. The Balancing Act — Staying Grounded

With heightened sensitivity comes the responsibility to stay grounded. Feeling everything can be exhausting.

Balance spiritual awareness with everyday living: good food, laughter, structure, practical work. Spirit doesn’t want you floating through life detached — they want you fully alive and aware.

True sensitivity is not escapism; it’s integration.

20. The Loving Intelligence Behind It All

At the core of every psychic or spiritual experience lies love — not performance, not power, not mystery for mystery’s sake.

Spirit works through emotion because emotion is universal. They choose the most efficient route between their world and ours: the heart.

If you sense them easily, it’s because your heart is open. If you struggle, it’s because life taught you to close it. The work of sensitivity is, therefore, the work of reopening the heart.

21. Developing Sensitivity in Modern Life

In a world of constant noise, digital distraction, and rushing minds, sensitivity is often buried under mental clutter.

To reconnect with your innate awareness:

Spend time offline and in nature.

Practice listening instead of filling silence.

Reflect daily: “What did I feel today that I ignored?”

Cultivate wonder. Notice beauty. Gratitude sharpens perception.

Sensitivity is not about escaping reality — it’s about expanding it.

22. My Personal Reflection as a Medium

When I stand on stage during a psychic mediumship show, I don’t “summon” Spirit — I attune.

I quiet my energy until the atmosphere changes, and then I recognise the subtle cues: shifts in temperature, emotional tones, fleeting images, or phrases.

That same process is available to everyone. Spirit doesn’t only step forward for mediums; they step forward for anyone whose heart is listening.

The only difference is practice, patience, and faith in the unseen.

23. The Psychological Benefit of Sensitivity

From my background in Cognitive Studies and trauma counselling, I’ve long believed that heightened spiritual awareness is also a psychological gift. It encourages mindfulness, empathy, and perspective beyond the material.

People who feel connected to something greater often cope better with grief and find deeper meaning in everyday life. Sensitivity to Spirit isn’t just metaphysical — it’s healing.

24. The Gift and the Responsibility

Being sensitive to Spirit isn’t always easy. It means feeling deeply — sometimes too deeply. It means being porous to the emotions of others and the unseen.

But it’s also an extraordinary privilege. It means you can witness love continuing beyond death, presence beyond form, and intelligence beyond comprehension.

If you sense Spirit easily, treat it with reverence. It’s not about spectacle; it’s about service — to healing, understanding, and the reminder that life is eternal.

Final Thoughts: Sensitivity Is Remembering

Sensing Spirit isn’t a skill you learn; it’s a memory you recover.

You’ve always been Spirit. You’ve always been connected. The difference between those who sense and those who don’t lies only in how much they’ve remembered who they truly are.

The next time you feel that sudden warmth, that quiet knowing, or that unexplainable comfort — don’t dismiss it. That’s not your imagination. That’s recognition.

And Spirit, ever patient, will always meet you at the level of your awareness, whispering softly through the heart:

“You see me because you remember.”

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October 5 2025

Remembering Colin Fry

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The Rise, Exposure, and Enduring Legacy of a Psychic Entertainer

Remembering Colin Fry | Beyond Mediumship — Colin Fry

Remembering Colin Fry: In the history of modern mediumship and psychic entertainment, few figures have divided opinion quite like Colin Fry. To some, he was a compassionate communicator whose stage presence brought messages of comfort, closure, and hope to thousands. To others, he represented the dangers of blending genuine sensitivity with theatrical showmanship.

Colin Fry’s life and work serve as both an inspiration and a cautionary tale — one that continues to echo across the worlds of psychic demonstration, mediumship, and spiritual performance.

The Early Rise of a Medium

Born in 1962, Colin Fry was said to have shown psychic sensitivity from a young age. By his early twenties, he was demonstrating mediumship both privately and publicly, attracting attention for his calm demeanour and his ability to deliver detailed, emotional messages in front of an audience.

He developed a reputation as a thoughtful, professional, and well-spoken medium who could engage audiences without sensationalism. This balanced, understated approach helped him to stand apart from the louder, more theatrical performers of his era.

In time, his talents led him from small spiritualist circles to packed venues across the UK. He became a household name, appearing on television and headlining stage events that introduced mediumship to mainstream audiences in a new way. To the general public, Fry appeared as the friendly face of spiritual communication — intelligent, grounded, and articulate.

But long before his fame as a television medium, there was a moment that would permanently mark his career and reputation — a moment that has been discussed, debated, and reinterpreted ever since.

The Infamous Séance

During the early 1990s, long before the era of his television shows, Colin Fry participated in physical séances — gatherings held in darkness where participants would witness alleged physical phenomena: moving objects, spirit voices, or manifestations. These were sessions that drew on the traditions of early-twentieth-century Spiritualism, when mediums claimed that spirits could physically interact with the material world.

At one particular séance, the lights were suddenly and unexpectedly switched on midway through the proceedings. What witnesses reported seeing changed everything.

The story goes that, as the light flooded the room, Colin Fry — who at that time sometimes used the stage name Lincoln — was seen standing in the centre of the séance room holding a luminous spirit trumpet that moments earlier had been moving through the air in apparent levitation.

The shock among those present was instant. In the dark, many believed they had been witnessing spirit activity; in the light, they saw a man holding the very object that was supposed to be floating independently.

For sceptics, it was a clear moment of exposure — a supposed medium caught in the act. For supporters, there was disbelief and confusion. Some suggested mechanical malfunction, spirit interference, or simple human error. Others quietly withdrew their support.

Regardless of interpretation, the incident would come to define the rest of Fry’s career.

Aftermath and Controversy

The séance exposure created ripples that spread through both the psychic and spiritualist communities. For some, it ended their belief in physical mediumship entirely. For others, it served as a warning about the risks of performing in darkness and the importance of transparency.

Colin Fry’s career could easily have ended at that point — yet it didn’t. He went on to reinvent himself as a more traditional mental medium, focusing on intuitive and clairvoyant communication rather than physical manifestations. His warm, compassionate delivery style won over new audiences and helped repair his public image.

By the early 2000s, Fry was one of the best-known psychic entertainers in Britain, hosting television programmes and filling theatres with people eager to hear messages from loved ones in spirit. He was articulate, thoughtful, and consistently professional — qualities that won him respect even among those aware of his controversial past.

Still, the séance story never disappeared. It resurfaced in interviews, online discussions, and books about psychic history, always reminding audiences and practitioners alike of the importance of ethics and integrity.

The Lessons Behind the Lights

The séance exposure incident is more than just a scandal — it’s a case study in the psychology of belief and the delicate trust between audience and performer.

Séances are powerful spaces. People attend them with open hearts and genuine emotion. The room is charged with anticipation and faith. When darkness and expectation combine, phenomena can feel overwhelmingly real, even when later proven otherwise.

For those of us who work as psychic entertainers and mediums, this story is a potent reminder that mystery should never come at the expense of truth. Darkness, when misused, breeds confusion; clarity, honesty, and professionalism build trust.

In my own work, whether I’m demonstrating psychometry, conducting a psychic entertainment show, or working with mediumship, I make it a priority to ensure that every experience is handled safely, transparently, and respectfully. Audiences deserve authenticity — and when they give you their belief, that trust must be treated as sacred.

Physical vs. Mental Mediumship

Fry’s exposure also reignited the debate between physical and mental mediumship. Physical mediumship involves tangible effects — sounds, movements, or materialisations — often in darkness. Mental mediumship, on the other hand, focuses on intuitive communication: impressions, clairvoyant imagery, or psychic information received through the mind rather than the senses.

While physical mediumship can produce striking experiences, it also carries risks. The absence of light and the reliance on trust make it particularly vulnerable to misunderstanding — or, in some cases, deliberate misuse.

By contrast, mental mediumship — and the form of psychic entertainment I personally practice — relies on connection, communication, and emotional insight rather than spectacle. It’s transparent, interactive, and safe, focusing on the message rather than the manifestation.

Fry’s Later Career and Redemption

After the controversy, Colin Fry continued performing for more than two decades. His shows became gentler and more heartfelt, focusing on comfort rather than proof. Viewers appreciated his sincerity and composure, and many people who attended his demonstrations described him as humble, kind, and compassionate.

He spoke often about grief and hope, blending spirituality with empathy in a way that resonated with everyday audiences. While some sceptics never forgave or forgot the séance exposure, others recognised a man who had learned from his mistakes and continued to serve his audience with dignity.

Even in the wake of controversy, Fry helped shape the modern landscape of psychic entertainment. His television work made mediumship more accessible to mainstream viewers and inspired many younger mediums to develop their own approach to connecting with spirit.

Reflection from a Fellow Medium

As someone who works professionally as a psychic medium and psychic entertainer, I look at Colin Fry’s story with a mix of respect, realism, and reflection. His early mistake is a cautionary example of how fragile credibility can be, but his persistence and later success demonstrate the enduring power of communication, sincerity, and resilience.

It’s easy to criticise, but anyone who steps onto a stage to share spiritual work faces a difficult balance: creating an atmosphere of wonder while maintaining transparency and ethical standards. For me, the lesson is simple — always let authenticity lead.

When I perform psychometry or demonstrate psychic insight at shows, I rely on sensitivity, intuition, and genuine connection — never illusion. When I work as a medium, I aim to keep the energy balanced, the message respectful, and the process completely open.

The trust between audience and medium is sacred. Once broken, it can take years to repair.

Why the Colin Fry Story Still Matters

Even years after his passing, Colin Fry remains one of the most discussed figures in modern mediumship. His story still surfaces in conversations about the credibility of psychic work, the ethics of entertainment, and the importance of spiritual responsibility.

To some, he will always be remembered for that night when the lights came on. To others, he is remembered for decades of heartfelt messages that helped people heal. Both can be true. His career represents the complex duality of the psychic world — where compassion and controversy can coexist.

For those of us continuing this work, Fry’s story serves as both a warning and a motivation:

A warning that credibility can vanish in a single moment of carelessness.

A motivation to ensure every demonstration, séance, and show is held safely, respectfully, and transparently.

Remembering Colin Fry – Closing Thoughts

Colin Fry’s life tells the story of how one man rose to fame, faced exposure, and still managed to rebuild his career through sincerity and service. Whether viewed as a gifted psychic entertainer or as a controversial showman, his influence on the landscape of modern mediumship is undeniable.

For today’s practitioners — mediums, psychic entertainers, and spiritual teachers alike — his legacy is both cautionary and instructive. It reminds us that no amount of mystery or drama can replace integrity, and that the truest power in this work comes from honesty, compassion, and authenticity.

As a psychic entertainer and medium, I believe that every performance, every demonstration, and every reading should uphold those values. Audiences deserve nothing less.

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September 27 2025

Psychic Entertainer

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Blending Psychic Ability, Mediumship & Psychometry

When people hear the phrase psychic entertainer, they often picture something mysterious, captivating, and unlike anything they’ve experienced before. For me, the title is more than just a description—it’s the way I bring together my psychic abilities, my work as a medium, and my passion for entertaining audiences in a way that is both engaging and unforgettable.

As a psychic entertainer, I combine demonstrations of psychic ability, audience participation, and performance to create experiences that amaze, move, and inspire. Every event is unique, because every audience is different. Some moments are light-hearted and fun, while others are deeply emotional or thought-provoking. My role is to guide people through those moments, weaving together entertainment and genuine connection.

The Role of a Psychic Entertainer

Unlike magicians or illusionists, a psychic entertainer doesn’t rely on tricks, props, or rehearsed illusions. Instead, the performance is powered by real human connection—intuition, energy, and the ability to tune into what lies beneath the surface.

My shows are interactive. I don’t simply perform to an audience, I perform with them. Guests become part of the experience, lending me objects for psychometry, taking part in psychic experiments, or witnessing moments of mediumship that resonate in surprising and moving ways.

Every show is a journey into possibility.

Mediumship – A Bridge Between Worlds

Mediumship is an essential part of who I am and what I bring to psychic entertainment. While psychometry and psychic demonstrations focus on sensing energy, personality, and impressions, mediumship takes things a step further. It is the ability to connect with those who have passed on, offering messages of comfort, validation, or encouragement to those still here.

When mediumship is included in a show, it adds depth and emotional resonance. Audiences often find themselves moved by the way messages from spirit come through—sometimes light and joyful, sometimes heartfelt and healing. Mediumship is not about fear or theatrics; it is about connection, love, and the reminder that bonds between people can endure beyond physical life.

In the context of entertainment, mediumship helps to create moments that are not only astonishing but also profoundly meaningful.

Psychometry – My Specialist Area

Of all the abilities I demonstrate as a psychic entertainer, psychometry is my specialty. Psychometry is the art of tuning into the energy of an object and receiving impressions about its owner—their personality, experiences, or emotions.

At events, I invite guests to hand me items they carry: rings, watches, keys, wallets, or even something as ordinary as a hotel keycard. By holding these objects, I allow impressions to surface—sometimes vivid images, sometimes emotions, sometimes an unshakable sense of knowing.

The results often astonish people. At a recent wedding reception in Portsmouth, I performed psychometry with guests’ belongings, and the reactions were unforgettable. People laughed in delight when I described their quirks, while others were moved to tears as I touched on personal experiences. What started as a celebration turned into an evening full of shared mystery, intrigue, and connection.

Psychometry works beautifully in entertainment because it is personal and interactive. It shows how the unseen can be revealed through the everyday, creating moments that audiences talk about long after the event.

Psychic Entertainment for Any Occasion

The beauty of psychic entertainment is its adaptability. I bring my work to all kinds of settings:

Private Gatherings – Intimate evenings where friends and family come together to share an unforgettable experience.

Weddings – Unique and memorable entertainment that gives guests personal stories to treasure and talk about.

Corporate Events – Offering colleagues and clients something strikingly different, blending insight with interaction for an experience that breaks the mould.

Stage & Theatre Shows – Larger-scale demonstrations where the energy of the whole room builds into a collective atmosphere of wonder.

Every performance is tailored to the audience, with a blend of psychic demonstrations, psychometry, and mediumship.

Why Psychic Entertainment Stands Apart

Psychic entertainment is unlike any other performance art because it isn’t about illusion—it’s about authentic interaction. Guests don’t simply watch; they take part, offering their energy, their objects, and sometimes even their stories to become part of the experience.

Through psychic ability, psychometry, and mediumship, I create a performance that is:

Interactive – Everyone has the chance to participate.

Unpredictable – No two shows are ever the same.

Safe & Respectful – Mediumship and psychometry are approached with care and professionalism.

Emotionally Resonant – Audiences often leave not just entertained, but also touched and reflective.

Unforgettable – Psychic entertainment creates memories that last.

Final Thoughts

Being a psychic entertainer allows me to bring together all aspects of my work—psychic ability, mediumship, and my specialty of psychometry—into experiences that are as entertaining as they are meaningful.

Psychometry adds the personal touch that draws people in. Mediumship adds the depth that touches hearts. And the blend of psychic insight with live entertainment makes every show unique.

If you are looking for something truly different for your event—something that will amaze, inspire, and stay with people long after the lights go down—psychic entertainment with me offers exactly that.

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September 3 2025

How to Spot a Fake Psychic

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So, How Do You Spot One?

How to spot a fake psychic: The world of psychic readings has always been a blend of fascination, curiosity, and sometimes scepticism. With the rise of social media, online booking platforms, and instant messaging apps, psychic services are now more accessible than ever before. This accessibility is a double-edged sword: while it has allowed authentic psychics and mediums to reach people across the globe, it has also opened the door to those who exploit trust and vulnerability.

I often meet people who come to me for a reading after having a disappointing or even traumatic experience with a so-called psychic. They describe feeling misled, pressured, or left in fear. Others walk away questioning whether all psychics are fakes. That’s why I believe it’s important to talk openly about this topic. A few bad apples shouldn’t define an entire field of work that, when done with honesty and compassion, can genuinely bring clarity, comfort, and healing.

So how do you protect yourself? How do you tell the difference between a genuine psychic and someone putting on an act? Let’s take a deep dive into the warning signs of a fake psychic, along with comparisons to how authentic practitioners work.

1. They Promise 100% Accuracy

A fake psychic might say things like:

“I can tell you exactly what will happen and when.”

“Everything I predict always comes true.”

This sounds appealing, but it’s simply not realistic. Genuine psychics — myself included — know that readings are never 100% certain. Why? Because life is shaped by free will. The choices you make today can change tomorrow’s outcome.

The difference:

A fake offers certainty and guarantees.

A real psychic offers insight, guidance, and possibilities, leaving space for your own choices.

2. They Use Fear to Control You

One of the most damaging tactics is the “fear hook.” A fake psychic might say:

“You have a curse on you, but I can remove it for £300.”

“There’s a dark energy around you, and unless you book weekly sessions, it will destroy your future.”

This is psychological manipulation. It preys on vulnerability, often during times of grief, heartbreak, or confusion.

The difference:

A fake creates fear and then sells you the solution.

A real psychic may acknowledge challenges or difficult energies, but they do so in a way that empowers you, not terrifies you.

3. They Rely on Fishing or Research

There are two common methods here:

Cold Reading: Making vague guesses like “You’ve been hurt in the past” or “There’s a man in spirit with the letter J”. These are generic statements that could apply to almost anyone. The fake watches your reactions and adjusts their “insights.”

Hot Reading: Using information they’ve looked up online or gathered from your booking details. For example, if you booked through Facebook, they may have scanned your profile and are now repeating facts as if they’ve “seen” them psychically.

The difference:

A fake relies on research or guesswork.

A real psychic doesn’t need to trawl your social media. Our work flows naturally from what we sense, see, or hear in the moment.

4. They Tell You Only What You Want to Hear

Let’s be honest: it feels nice to be told everything will be perfect, your ex will definitely come back, and your bank account will soon overflow. But if a reading sounds too much like wish fulfilment, it might not be genuine.

The difference:

A fake flatters you endlessly and avoids uncomfortable truths.

A real psychic balances compassion with honesty. Sometimes a message is challenging, but it’s shared with care, never cruelty.

5. They Keep Pushing for More Money

This might look like:

Sudden price increases mid-session.

Suggesting you must book multiple sessions to “unlock” results.

Offering expensive add-ons (amulets, cleansings, or “special spells”) as the only way forward.

The difference:

A fake uses high-pressure sales tactics.

A real psychic is clear about fees upfront. You pay for the time and service agreed — nothing more, nothing hidden.

6. They Lack Transparency

Ask a psychic how they work, and you should get a clear answer. If someone is evasive, vague, or refuses to explain their approach, that’s a red flag.

The difference:

A fake hides behind mystery, often to avoid accountability.

A real psychic explains their process, sets clear boundaries (for example, not giving medical or financial advice), and often includes disclaimers.

7. They Make “Too Good to Be True” Claims

Promises of lottery numbers, miracle healings, or instant wealth are classic signs of a scam. Spiritual work doesn’t operate like a slot machine.

The difference:

A fake offers quick fixes and guarantees.

A real psychic helps you explore possibilities, patterns, and guidance, but never claims to bend reality to your will.

How a Genuine Psychic Reading Feels

To balance the picture, let me share what you should expect from a real reading.

Clarity, not confusion: You leave with insight you can reflect on, not a fog of fear.

Empowerment, not dependence: You feel stronger and more confident, not trapped into endless bookings.

Compassion, not manipulation: Even if a message is tough, it’s given with respect and care.

Honesty, not perfection: A real psychic will admit they don’t know everything and that free will shapes outcomes.

Why This Matters

Fake psychics don’t just cost people money — they erode trust in a profession that, when authentic, can truly support healing, closure, and growth. As an unguided psychic medium, I work without a spirit guide, relying solely on my clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and claircognizance. I believe strongly in integrity: no fear tactics, no wild promises, no hidden costs.

When people come to me after being exploited, they often carry shame, anger, and disappointment. I remind them: being deceived does not mean you were foolish — it means you trusted. And trust is a beautiful quality. The responsibility lies with the person who abused it, not you.

How to Spot a Fake Psychic – Final Thoughts

There will always be sceptics who argue that all psychics are fake. I understand why — the actions of dishonest individuals create doubt. But just as there are dishonest doctors, therapists, or mechanics, it doesn’t mean the entire field is false.

By learning the signs, you can protect yourself from scams and find those who work with authenticity. Remember: a genuine psychic leaves you with clarity, comfort, and empowerment — never fear, dependency, or pressure.

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August 24 2025

Are Psychic Abilities Real?

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So, Do Psychic Abilities Really Exist?

Are psychic abilities real, It’s a question that has been asked for centuries, whispered in curiosity, shouted in scepticism, and contemplated in moments of quiet reflection: Are psychic abilities real?

It’s a question I encounter often in my work as a psychic medium. Some people ask with open curiosity, wanting to know if there truly is “something more.” Others ask with doubt, expecting me to stumble or defend myself. And some ask with quiet hope, because deep down, they want the answer to be yes.

The reality is this: the question of whether psychics are real is not simple. It’s layered with history, science, belief, scepticism, personal experience, and cultural influence. But I’ll share my perspective honestly—because this is not only a philosophical or spiritual question for me, it’s the life I live every day.

What Do We Mean by “Psychic”?

The word psychic carries many associations. To some, it means fortune-tellers with crystal balls and vague predictions. To others, it means scam artists preying on grief. For many, it suggests something strange, mystical, or outside of normal human experience.

But let’s strip it back. The word psychic comes from the Greek psykhikos, meaning of the mind or of the soul. At its core, being psychic means perceiving information beyond the five physical senses. It’s not about theatrics, but about awareness—awareness of energy, thought, emotion, and possibility.

Psychic ability can show up in different ways, often called the clairs:

Clairvoyance – clear seeing; receiving images, visions, or inner pictures.

Clairaudience – clear hearing; perceiving words, voices, or sounds.

Clairsentience – clear feeling; sensing emotions or physical sensations not your own.

Claircognizance – clear knowing; sudden awareness of truth without logical explanation.

For me, these senses are not abstract—they’re practical tools I use when I quiet my mind and open myself to intuition. They’re how I receive the information I share, whether in private readings, group sessions, or on stage.

We Are All Psychic

Here’s something important: psychic ability isn’t exclusive to a chosen few. We are all psychic.

Think about your own life:

Have you ever thought of someone just before they called you?

Have you walked into a room and instantly felt tension, even before anyone spoke?

Have you had a “gut feeling” about something that later proved true?

Did you, as a child, have an “imaginary friend” that felt a little too real?

Most people dismiss these moments as coincidence or imagination. But I see them as glimpses of the natural psychic awareness within us all.

The difference between myself and many others is simple: I never shut it down. As a child, I noticed things others didn’t—the sights, sounds, feelings, and whispers of intuition. I didn’t ignore them. I listened. Over time, that awareness became my life’s work.

So, when someone asks me if psychics are real, my answer is always: yes—and so are you.

Why Scepticism Exists

Of course, not everyone agrees. And honestly? I understand why.

For every genuine psychic, there are many who exploit belief. Fake psychics have existed throughout history—those who use trickery, manipulation, or fear to make money. Cold reading, vague statements, or researching clients beforehand are common tactics for frauds. And sadly, their behaviour damages the reputation of those who work with integrity.

This is why scepticism is healthy. It reminds us to question, to test, and to demand honesty. I welcome scepticism. What I don’t welcome is closed-minded cynicism—the kind that refuses to even consider experience outside its worldview.

As I often tell people: if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Be wary of anyone who promises guaranteed results, miracle solutions, or who pressures you into repeat sessions out of fear. Real psychic work does not operate this way.

Psychic vs. Medium

Another common point of confusion is the difference between a psychic and a medium.

A psychic tunes into the energy of people, places, and situations. They read emotions, patterns, relationships, and possibilities.

A medium goes further, connecting with spirit—those who have passed on—to bring messages of love, reassurance, and guidance.

I work as both, but I call myself an unguided medium. That means I don’t work through a spirit guide, as many do. Instead, I connect directly, relying only on my psychic senses. My work is direct, honest, and clear—I don’t embellish, dramatise, or speak in riddles.

A Historical Perspective

Belief in psychics isn’t new—it’s part of human culture. Across history and around the world, seers, shamans, prophets, and visionaries have been consulted in times of uncertainty.

In Ancient Greece, the Oracle of Delphi was sought for guidance by rulers and warriors.

In Norse traditions, völvas (seers) offered prophecies and spiritual counsel.

Celtic druids, indigenous shamans, and mystics from every continent have fulfilled similar roles.

In 19th-century America, the Fox Sisters helped spark the Spiritualist movement, which spread worldwide and continues today.

While scepticism has always existed, so too has the human need to reach beyond the ordinary for meaning, guidance, and reassurance.

Science and Psychology

From a scientific viewpoint, “are psychic abilities real?” is notoriously difficult to prove. Laboratories demand repeatable, controlled results, yet psychic phenomena don’t always appear on command. They flow with subtlety, not like a light switch.

Parapsychology has studied telepathy, remote viewing, and precognition for decades. Some experiments show results beyond chance. Others don’t. The debate continues.

Psychology offers its own explanations:

Heightened empathy or sensitivity.

Subconscious observation of body language and micro-expressions.

The brain’s pattern recognition abilities.

Some say that’s all psychic ability is. For me, those explanations are part of it—but not all of it. The truth, I believe, is bigger. Science doesn’t yet have the language to fully describe psychic perception. Just as lightning was once considered mystical before physics explained it, I believe psychic ability is part of human experience we don’t yet fully understand.

Ethics in Psychic Work

Psychic work deals with vulnerable emotions—grief, loss, love, and hope. That means it carries responsibility. Ethics matter.

I am clear about what I don’t offer:

Medical diagnosis.

Legal or financial predictions.

Guaranteed outcomes.

Healing of any kind.

Communication with pets.

Free or exploitative readings.

What I do offer is a safe, respectful, and honest connection. I communicate exactly what I receive—directly, clearly, and without embellishment. I hold space with compassion, while reminding people that spiritual support should never replace medical, psychological, or practical help.

My Personal Experience

This is not theory for me. It’s my daily reality.

Since childhood, I have seen, heard, and felt what others did not. Over the years, through thousands of readings and demonstrations, I have shared information I could not possibly have known. I’ve seen how a message from a loved one in spirit can bring comfort to the grieving. I’ve witnessed laughter and tears when someone realises they are still connected to the person they thought they had lost.

For me, these moments are too frequent, too precise, and too healing to dismiss. I don’t claim to have all the answers, but I know this: what I experience is real. And the impact it has on people is undeniable.

So… Are Psychic Abilities Real?

From where I stand, the answer is yes.

But not always in the way people expect. It isn’t about fortune-telling or magical powers. It isn’t about theatrics. It’s about awareness, intuition, connection, and sensitivity.

And it isn’t limited to a chosen few—it’s something we all carry. Some ignore it, some forget it, and some, like me, devote their lives to developing it.

Final Thoughts

The question “are psychic abilities real?” is really another question in disguise: Is there more to life than what I can see and touch?

I don’t ask anyone to believe blindly. Healthy scepticism is important. But I encourage curiosity too. Test it for yourself. Notice your own intuition. Remember the small moments where logic fails but instinct proves right.

Because ultimately, the best way to answer the question is not through argument, but through experience.

So, are psychic abilities real?
Yes. They always have been. And whether you realise it or not—you are one too.

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